Bonding Leave Update

Bonding leave is going really well. I am enjoying every minute of my time off. During the first 8 weeks with Tucker, we decided to keep Owen in school full time except when we've had visitors. Its worked out really well since it's given Owen the chance to stick to his routine and me the chance to focus on Tucker and catch up on rest. Starting on Monday, Owen will stay home two days a week- Monday and Friday. I'm excited.

I usually spend most of the day cuddling/nursing and changing Tucker's diapers. Tucker still sleeps for many hours of the day, sometimes in my arms and sometimes in his pack n play or swing. When the weather is cooperating, I usually take Tucker for a long walk in the late morning and then I do laundry, clean the kitchen, or make/prep dinner. The house is definitely messy most of the time, but we're ok with that for now. In the late afternoon, Tucker and I pick up Owen (usually between 3 and 4) and then play until Daddy gets home. We have an early dinner followed by a couple more hours playing (every couple days we have bath time, too). Quiet time starts between 7:45 and 8:15 on most nights and includes three of four stories and a review of our day or a preview of the coming day. I love this time as it gives me a chance to cuddle close with Owen.

It's hard to pick a favorite time of the day, but I think I have to say that it's when I have a few minutes to hold Tucker and also hug/snuggle with Owen. I also love it when Owen whispers, "goodnight mommy, i love you". And really, every minute snuggling with Tucker is the best!!

I will be off until early June and plan to enjoy every minute. In a couple of weeks, we're taking a trip to Orange and then Kris's sister will be here to spend Easter with us.